Add include and exclude devices to device selector

[andrew-codechimp]

Proposed change

Add optional include and exclude device id lists to the device selector.
This will be useful for future helper style integrations where it is not applicable to add a second helper to a device.

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Type of change

• Dependency upgrade
• Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (thank you!)
• Breaking change (fix/feature causing existing functionality to break)
• Code quality improvements to existing code or addition of tests

Additional information

• This PR fixes or closes issue: fixes #
• This PR is related to issue or discussion:
• Link to documentation pull request: Add include and exclude devices to device selector home-assistant.io#44130
• Link to developer documentation pull request:
• Link to backend pull request: Add include and exclude devices to device selector core#165599

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