Add include and exclude devices to device selector

[andrew-codechimp]

Proposed change

Add optional include and exclude device id lists to the device selector.
This will be useful for future helper style integrations where it is not applicable to add a second helper to a device.

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Additional information

• This PR fixes or closes issue: fixes #
• This PR is related to issue:
• Link to documentation pull request: Add include and exclude devices to device selector home-assistant.io#44130
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• Link to frontend pull request: Add include and exclude devices to device selector frontend#30153

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[Copilot]

Pull request overview

Adds optional include_devices / exclude_devices filtering support to the backend device selector, enabling callers (e.g., future “helper-style” flows) to constrain which device IDs are valid selections.

Changes:

• Extend DeviceSelector config schema/types to accept include_devices and exclude_devices.
• Enforce include/exclude validation when a device selector value is submitted (single and multiple modes).
• Add unit tests covering include/exclude behavior for device selectors.

Reviewed changes

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File	Description
homeassistant/helpers/selector.py	Adds include/exclude lists to device selector config and validates selections against them.
tests/helpers/test_selector.py	Adds test cases verifying include/exclude validation for single and multi device selection.