upgrade: memo and destructure packages upgrade for Solid 2.0

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@solid-primitives/memo`:

• createDebouncedMemo / createThrottledMemo sections: changed from "deprecated" to "Removed in v2", linking to @solid-primitives/schedule with a note that it isn't yet updated for Solid 2.0
• Added a new createAsyncMemo section: "Removed in v2", explaining that createResource no longer exists and pointing to the Solid 2.0 alternatives
• createLazyMemo "Not ownerless" section: replaced with "Auto-disposal and recomputation" — the v2 native createMemo({ lazy: true }) behavior, including the note that prev resets to undefined after a full unsubscribe/resubscribe cycle
• "No equals" section: tightened the prose to match the v2 pull-based rationale

This completes the deprecation of create of previously primitives but I'm questioning if they should probably be brought back. Looking for suggestion and confirmation that this is indeed the correct path foward.

@solid-primitives/destructure:

• Added pnpm install line (was missing)
• Added a Solid 2.0 requirement callout
• Documented the two new options (name, equals) that were previously inherited implicitly from `MemoOptions

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