feat: add detour date and reason filter

[stevejrowe]

Asana Ticket: Detours Table | Add Date Filter to Closed Detours Table

Attempted to consolidate our filter form styling a bit:

• bootstraps input-group is just a little too different structurally to be useful, so added input-group-filter to extra-bespoke. It extends the bootstrap form-control class, and is mostly comprised of mixins I put in ui_kit so that they can be applied separately if we need another bespoke input
• override bootstraps select-filter so that the default "all" value matches the gray in the rest of the filters for dropdowns.
• For the most part the hover and focus shadows / colors should match between all input/selects.
• Icons have also all been consolidated to 16px black and purple on hover.

DateTimePicker

• Created dateTimePicker.tsx wrapper component - it really only exposes the options and dates value
• Uses the new input-group-filter class with no overrides.

Reasons

• Moved possible reasons from the activation modal to assets/src/data/detourReasons.ts to be shared with the filter.
• Moved the column order to match new mockups
• Memoized the filters now that there are so many more

Moved the clear button out of header

• really moved the title inside of the "DetourTable" so that the clear button still has the state values declared in there.

Updated the following inputs to use the new styling:

• route ladder - route text filter, garage combobox
• search map - text filter, filter results combobox
• past detours - route select, intersection text filter