Change visibilty to hidden on OSX/clang

[rosswhitfield]

Description of work

This sets CMAKE_CXX_VISIBILITY_PRESET=hidden for clang/OSX so it matches Linux/Windows.

There are a number of fixes that were needed to make this work as you can see:

• Added missing export macros
• Change some checks for exceptions in tests to base class because of slicing
• Implement destructors when needed in cpp so this forces the vtable and typeinfo for it to be anchored in libMantid* and exported with correct visibility.
• Removed the unused LogManager::getInvalidValuesFilter
• Lot of other small things to make it work

It may require a clean build on OSX.

Closes #39159

To test:

CI + code review

This does not require release notes because internal change only not visible to users.

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[peterfpeterson]

Since it messes with the state of OSX builders, this is going to wait until after the v6.14 release