[fix] update dragonboat version, fix the snapshot bug (#23383)

## What type of PR is this?

- [ ] API-change
- [x] BUG
- [ ] Improvement
- [ ] Documentation
- [ ] Feature
- [ ] Test and CI
- [ ] Code Refactoring

## Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

issue https://github.com/matrixorigin/MO-Cloud/issues/6848

## What this PR does / why we need it:
just after a membership config change, the lastest snapshot
will not contain it, this is a bug. The snapshot should contain
all membership changes

Author: volgariver6

go.mod

@@ -247,7 +247,7 @@ replace github.com/hashicorp/memberlist => github.com/matrixorigin/memberlist v0
 replace (
 	github.com/elastic/gosigar v0.14.2 => github.com/matrixorigin/gosigar v0.14.3-0.20241204071856-40aab500bfac
 	github.com/fagongzi/goetty/v2 v2.0.3-0.20230628075727-26c9a2fd5fb8 => github.com/matrixorigin/goetty/v2 v2.0.0-20240611082008-a4de209fff3d
-	github.com/lni/dragonboat/v4 v4.0.0-20220815145555-6f622e8bcbef => github.com/matrixorigin/dragonboat/v4 v4.0.0-20251203123148-9dcde946363f
+	github.com/lni/dragonboat/v4 v4.0.0-20220815145555-6f622e8bcbef => github.com/matrixorigin/dragonboat/v4 v4.0.0-20251214113216-2ddf81ef2a85
 	github.com/lni/goutils v1.3.1-0.20220604063047-388d67b4dbc4 => github.com/matrixorigin/goutils v1.3.1-0.20220604063047-388d67b4dbc4
 	github.com/lni/vfs v0.2.1-0.20220616104132-8852fd867376 => github.com/matrixorigin/vfs v0.2.1-0.20220616104132-8852fd867376
 )

go.sum

@@ -533,8 +533,8 @@ github.com/magiconair/properties v1.8.7 h1:IeQXZAiQcpL9mgcAe1Nu6cX9LLw6ExEHKjN0V
 github.com/magiconair/properties v1.8.7/go.mod h1:Dhd985XPs7jluiymwWYZ0G4Z61jb3vdS329zhj2hYo0=
 github.com/mailru/easyjson v0.7.7 h1:UGYAvKxe3sBsEDzO8ZeWOSlIQfWFlxbzLZe7hwFURr0=
 github.com/mailru/easyjson v0.7.7/go.mod h1:xzfreul335JAWq5oZzymOObrkdz5UnU4kGfJJLY9Nlc=
-github.com/matrixorigin/dragonboat/v4 v4.0.0-20251203123148-9dcde946363f h1:3iDaudrS54/39kxYV/7zn55+KbY7/qT9R7A++iD8d40=
-github.com/matrixorigin/dragonboat/v4 v4.0.0-20251203123148-9dcde946363f/go.mod h1:bR6ZGoUwApH4/P4+AezNGT0xehljg+j+Z/Q2Fz+Y4a0=
+github.com/matrixorigin/dragonboat/v4 v4.0.0-20251214113216-2ddf81ef2a85 h1:8zwV6ypyx3/TXgOG1k6pY5FiFWlYh97zf0Bsc0qj9bY=
+github.com/matrixorigin/dragonboat/v4 v4.0.0-20251214113216-2ddf81ef2a85/go.mod h1:B1VfuDzGm7Uk0xoRkRJynA6n4i31m/1ZJIPfIyJfYQg=
 github.com/matrixorigin/goetty/v2 v2.0.0-20240611082008-a4de209fff3d h1:wSlkJlWXZ3if1sH8Bc/lUUOWhTw91lgYGSFOHqy1tcw=
 github.com/matrixorigin/goetty/v2 v2.0.0-20240611082008-a4de209fff3d/go.mod h1:OwIBpVwRW1HjF/Jhc2Av3UvG2NygMg+bdqGxZaqwhU0=
 github.com/matrixorigin/gosigar v0.14.3-0.20241204071856-40aab500bfac h1:KRPOwOcSZRfWT7w8mr7BmFLoFB75ljgqjkg47xkN/Pc=